“What kind of medicine can be prescribed for loneliness?” — asked psychologist Daniel de Liever at the Békéscsaba event of the MCC Budapest Summit, highlighting that one of today’s most pressing social issues causes not only emotional but also physical symptoms.
At the Békéscsaba edition of the MCC Budapest Summit, Daniel de Liever, editor at Nieuw Rechts, addressed one of the most pressing social issues of our time: loneliness. Moderated by Michael Severance, senior researcher at the Acton Institute and visiting fellow at MCC, the conversation explored how technology may offer connection, but cannot replace the depth and complexity of genuine human relationships. “What kind of medicine can be prescribed for loneliness?” de Liever asked, pointing to the emotional and physical toll isolation takes on individuals—an issue particularly acute among the elderly.
The discussion began by acknowledging that while humans are inherently social beings, cultural differences shape how strongly we seek community. A Dutch or Norwegian person may lean toward individualism, while an Italian might be more community-oriented—but the need to belong is universal. De Liever warned that online interactions often create only the illusion of closeness. Social media and AI-based chat programs may seem comforting, but they lack the tension, effort, and authenticity that define real human connection. “An AI will never tell you that you forgot to take out the trash again,” he joked, underscoring the irreplaceable role of reciprocal, emotionally engaging relationships.
The conversation also addressed the growing isolation of older generations. According to de Liever, the primary responsibility for elderly care should lie with the family, not with state institutions. “When the elderly allow us to care for them, they’re doing us a favor,” he remarked, emphasizing that caregiving strengthens community bonds and offers meaning to both parties. He stressed that loneliness is not just a psychological issue—it has serious physical consequences, including increased rates of anxiety and depression. The true remedy, he said, is not medication, but meaningful connection, whether through human relationships or even the companionship of a loyal pet. Still, he noted, animals can only complement, not replace, human closeness.
The Békéscsaba event strongly reflected the core message of the MCC Budapest Summit: the importance of finding balance between innovation and tradition. As de Liever and Severance concluded, while technology may offer convenience, it must not come at the expense of cultural continuity, personal relationships, or family life. Upholding these human values remains essential—even, and especially, in a digital age.
